NJ Divorce Mediation Resources for Stressful Times

In Monday’s post, we at Equitable Mediation Services talked about how during divorce mediation we try to get to the true self and strip away much of the anger that surrounds divorce to reach a more fair and equitable settlement.  As a mediator, it’s my job to watch for signs that one party may be either taking advantage of the situation or be at a disadvantage and if appropriate, recommend the help of a third party.  Sometimes that’s the help of a financial professional to sort through complex tax returns or business valuations and sometimes it’s the help of a mental health professional who can guide them through these troubled times.

One such resource I believe to be of tremendous value is that of the New Jersey Mental Health Cares website which can be found in our helpful links section.  The website is supported and maintained by the NJ Department of Human Services and is a comprehensive resource and help center for those experiencing a mental crisis or for those who just don’t know where to turn.

During times of severe mental duress (and don’t fool yourself – divorce is certainly one of them) we may need someone to talk to who can help us manage the intense emotions we are experiencing and help us get through these troubled times.  And while divorce mediation tries to be a peaceful process and help couples get through their divorce as painlessly as possible, it doesn’t mean there is no pain.  Dealing with the four main areas of divorce mediation is only part of the process.  Dealing with the emotional toll divorce takes is another and these people are here to help you.

So take some time to look around the site, and as always if you have any questions about how divorce mediation can help you keep the peace during this difficult time, please do not hesitate to contact us and we’ll be glad to help you in any way we can.